Mother is taking over my wedding!!?

Go to the store without her even if she b*tches about it. It's not worth getting stressed. If you don't like your dress get a new one beofre it's too late, regardless of what your mother says. I guess what I'm trying to say in the nicest way possible is to grow a spine and tell your mother that it's YOUR wedding and you will do it YOUR way whether she likes it or not. If you like the silk flowers, use them. You are making YOUR memories not hers. She had her moment, now have yours.